Monday, November 9, 2009

What Is The Meaning Of "Orphan"?

November is National Adoption Awareness Month. This post is part a series about adoption and related issues, from my perspective.

Part of the controversy surrounding Madonna’s adoption of a boy and a girl from Malawi in recent years centered on whether the children should be considered orphans, because they had a living parent or relative.

I found a recent article from Lifelines, the quarterly report from Bethany Christian Services helpful. Here’s an excerpt:

“According to The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, “orphan” is defined as follows:

or-phan n. 1a. A child whose parents are dead. b.A child who has been deprived of parental care and has not been adopted…3.One that lacks support, supervision, or care.

Most Americans think of orphans as children whose parents (both) are dead. But today the international community often uses a broad definition of ‘children without parental care’ when they refer to orphans.”

By the way, I can’t think of a finer organization to invest your time or money in than Bethany Christian Services. My husband and I first interacted with them when we adopted our oldest child. I love that they not only are a top-notch adoption agency but they are also heavily invested in creating solutions for orphans that are even better than adoption, including tackling the systemic problems that create orphans in the first place. Again from the article:

“For Bethany, orphan care is first about supporting families who care for orphans—it is about finding effective ways to prevent children from going into orphanages…and it is about finding appropriate ways to remove children from orphanages and to return them to a loving home environment.”

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Today Is Orphan Sunday

November is National Adoption Awareness Month. This post is part a series about adoption and related issues, from my perspective.

The Christian Alliance for Orphans has declared today—November 8th—“Orphan Sunday”. The CAO was created to spotlight the needs of the more than 130,000 orphans around the world.*

To learn more about the Christian Alliance for Orphans movement, click here.

To learn more about Orphan Sunday events, including a live concert webcast featuring Christian musician (and adoptive father) Steven Curtis Chapman, click here.

I’ll close with a video the CAO has created for the day:



Orphan Sunday from Christian Alliance for Orphans on Vimeo.

(Click here if the video doesn’t show up in your browser.)

*Many organizations cite the 2006 UNICEF number of worldwide orphans of 143,000. But their most recent research—from 2008—puts the number down to 132,000. Regardless, the number is staggering.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Adoption And The Heart Of God

November is National Adoption Awareness Month. This post is the first in a series about adoption and related issues, from my perspective.

Before my husband and I first entered the world of adoption, it seemed like a fairly simple concept:

We were unable to have children of our own.
Lots of children in the world needed someone to take care of them.

Perfect match.

But of course adoption—like the rest of life—is never that simple.

We first adopted children because of our own needs and desires: we wanted to have kids. But God slowly opened our eyes to show us adoption—again like the rest of life—is not about us. It’s not even just about the children. It’s about having a unique avenue to touch and heal the broken world around us.

Everybody has an opinion about adoption these days. High-profile adoptions by celebrities like Madonna and Angelina Jolie have raised awareness of many of the controversies surrounding adoption. But adoption is a far more complex issue than most people realize.

I certainly don’t have all the answers. But I do have a unique perspective on the issue 1) because of my own involvement in different types of adoption and 2) because of my Christian beliefs.

I’ll close this first post with a short video from John Piper. (Piper and his wife adopted a little girl over a decade ago, after giving birth to four boys.)


(Click here if the video isn’t supported in your browser):

“God the Father chose us before the creation of the world…In love He predestined us to be adopted as his children through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the praise of His glorious grace…” (Ephesians 1:4-6)

Sunday, November 1, 2009

A Schism Within Atheism

A recent article by NPR religion correspondent Barbara Bradley Hagerty entitled “A Bitter Rift Divides Atheists” describes a growing schism within secularism.

What’s causing the split? A debate over the best way to proselytize.

“Classic” atheists believe religious people should be treated with respect. For instance, old-school atheist Paul Kurtz founded the Center for Inquiry three decades ago to offer a positive alternative to religion. However he intentionally seeks common ground with religious groups, building alliances with them to tackle issues like climate change.

On the other hand, “neo-atheists” advocate a more in-your-face approach. For example, God Is Not Great author Christopher Hitchens recently had this to say to an audience at the University of Toronto:

"I think religion should be treated with ridicule, hatred and contempt, and I claim that right."

September’s Blasphemy Day celebrations created a flashpoint for the brewing controversy. But Stuart Jordan, a scientific advisor at the Center for Inquiry, says the argument goes way beyond that day. He believes this issue will decide the future of the atheist movement:

"It's really a national debate among people with a secular orientation about how far do we want to go in promoting a secular society…”

To read the article in its entirety, click here.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Is It Okay To Be Rich?

I recently posted about how two of Randy Alcorn’s books significantly shaped my life. I also recommend his blog, Eternal Perspectives. Alcorn mostly writes about his passions: generous living, heaven, and the pro-life movement. His latest book—which he has been posting about recently—is called If God Is Good: Faith in the Midst of Suffering and Evil.

He also recently began a weekly series where he answers readers’ questions. I thought today’s post, Choosing A God-Honoring Lifestyle, was very helpful. Alcorn answers the question:

"Do you believe that everyone should live modestly? How do you measure this? Should everyone have the same amount, or are some called to wealth and others not?"
In essence he answered the question, “Is it okay to be rich?”

Because I’m very rich* and I follow Jesus, I thought the answer was quite pertinent. To read Alcorn’s response, click here.

*As a middle-class American, I am easily within the top 5% of the world’s wealthiest people.

Disney Vacation

I just returned from a wonderful vacation: my husband's parents treated us to a trip to Disney World! I've been trying to learn new online slideshow software...and I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to test it out. :) Hope you enjoy these pics of my precious kids...thanks for indulging me!


Disney

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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Queso Quote

"If my life is broken when given to Jesus, it is because pieces will feed a multitude, while a loaf will satisfy only a little lad."

–Ruth Stull, missionary