tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289363157607471917.post865398706682554094..comments2011-12-16T19:49:35.852-06:00Comments on InfiniteQueso: An Unhurried LifeInfiniteQuesohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17474335747837408215noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289363157607471917.post-18832807611892715092011-12-16T19:49:35.852-06:002011-12-16T19:49:35.852-06:00I wish I knew the answers, Tracy! It takes a lot o...I wish I knew the answers, Tracy! It takes a lot of courage to say "no" when it involves other people; to be willing to make those choices when others may respond in hurt/anger/judgment/etc. It's so hard to sort out our motives. And you're way ahead of me on coaching our kids on this...will you let me know how that goes when my kids get to that stage? :)InfiniteQuesohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17474335747837408215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289363157607471917.post-35522446999664317442011-12-15T08:27:31.132-06:002011-12-15T08:27:31.132-06:00Because of our cultural norms, there is so much gu...Because of our cultural norms, there is so much guilt associated with slowing down, doing less, and saying no. What will people think of me if I don't volunteer, or if I skip an event? The worst feeling is watching my youngest child fall into this trap already - with all the opportunities available and peer pressure to participate, how do we teach our children that busyness is not the goal?Tracy Goodwinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15629640014277374696noreply@blogger.com